TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
April, 2003
Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.
TGIRL
HAS PLENTY OF NICE GUYS NOW
Subj: lol now take me off
Date: 4/29/2003 11:01:14 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi, I am very happy
with the responses I got, but now I have plenty of nice guys after me.
Please take down my personal listing. Hopefully I won't need it again.
Thanks,
--Mary
OF
TGIRLS & GUYS WITH WEIRD IDEAS
Subj: Your Site
Date: 4/28/2003 2:43:38 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Good afternoon. You have a great site and it is very informative. It should
help a lot of guys out there with weird ideas.
I went with a TS for almost five years. It was a very enjoyable time in my life before she moved. The bottom line is: Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.
Thank you so much.
--Ed.
ON
DEVELOPING REALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS
Subj: Kudos!
Date: 4/27/2003 1:02:51 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
You have established an informative website that provides individuals with the information that they need in order to better understand and appreciate the special considerations that are important as they attempt to developing realistic relationships between one another.
It is readily apparent that sex is not the issue, the target on the website. I have no doubt that you would agree that sex, without love, is valueless; meaningless. Without virtue. That those who attempt to meet just for sex are bound to wander from pillar to lamp post forever 'n' ever, very much alone and totally disillusioned.
Kudos! Kudos for your efforts and zeal to bring potentially best friends 'n' confidants together at last. Well done....
--Bill M., Spring Lake, NJ.
OF
TGIRLS & OLDER MEN
Subj: Older guy has trouble meeting...
Date: 4/27/2003 9:34:38 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I LOVE your website! I am a 45-year-old American Indian/Hispanic male, a high school teacher, divorced, with kids and living near Portland, Oregon, in a fairly suburban town. I more or less "came of age" as a guy who lusted after Tgirls in the San Francisco area during the 1980s.
I had some friendly relationships with Tgirls then, but the fear took over. You may recall that this was the peak of the AIDS fear -- nobody knew anything about it other than people were dying from a transmissible disease. So I married a straight woman and had two kids.
I am having one heck of a time finding any Tgirl interested in dating me. This, even though I have LOTS of genetic girls who are very interested in dating me. I no longer go to bars (too old to fit in). I am very very interested in finding a nice Tgirl for a girlfriend and life partner. I know the road ahead is dificult, but attainable.
I just wanted to write to you and let you know that, contrary to popular belief, not every "old guy" is gross, confused, or not worth knowing. We're on a quest, too. And there may have been good reasons for us to avoid Tgirl relationships in earlier years.
Peace and love,
--Benjamin.
NEEDED
A BIT MORE TIME
Subj: Thank you
Date: 4/26/2003 7:42:40 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi, I must thank you for the words you have provided. I did meet a very lovely special lady. And I became scared. She was very nice and I, for some reason, became scared to continue with it. I only knew her for a month. And she wanted to move in with me. I loved the thought but I guess I just wanted a little more time to get to know her better.
Sincerely,
--Thomas.
TGIRLS
HAVE PREFERENCES TOO
Subj: Regarding the Short Man Issue
Date: 4/25/2003 1:42:09 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me
[References an email about advice to a short man] Yes, height is a big deal. Just as looks are. Sure, we all want to act "enlightened" and say it doesn't matter but it does. How many times have you looked at an UGLY girl from across a crowded room and thought "Wow! I bet she's intelligent, I wanna meet her!"? If you answer truthfully, you're going to respond with "Never."
Aside from that, all it takes is one person to "clock" you and that will ruin your night. No, everyone isn't as secure with themselves and as "enlightened" as they should be, but it's the truth. Even genetic women aren't running around looking for guys who don't physically turn them on. I can't believe you told this poor guy that the woman he was speaking to is "shallow" if she doesn't want to speak to him anymore. Get real; people have preferences. A heterosexual woman isn't going to date a gay woman just because they "get along." A guy who isn't into Tgirls isn't going to date one just because they "get along." If this same girl lied and was really a big hairy burly man would it matter? You get along.
TGIRL
SAYS IT'S ABOUT TIME
Subj: Great Site
Date: 4/24/2003 8:21:42 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi,
I've not even finished reading everything on your site and all I have to say is that it's "about time!"
Wish this had been around as a resource for many of the guys I've dated as a soon-to-be post-op woman. Thanks for dealing with some of the myths about this.
Regards,
--Gina K., Publisher.
JUST
BE YOURSELF AROUND TGIRLS
Subj: you
Date: 4/24/2003 12:13:14 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi there,
I accidently
came across TSgirlfriend.com, and I read most of the information. It was
very interesting and educational. I've always wondered what goes on inside
a TS from the emotional side. I find this site has given me some blunt
answers about the facts. I always thought that some men / women are born
with both a penis and breasts. I have seen a few photos of absolutely
beautiful TS's where I really could not believe have penises.
I am not gay and never had that experience, but when I see photos of most
TS's, I feel that I want to experience one, both emotionally and physically.
If an opportunity ever comes, I am sure I'll be open-minded as suggested
in this site. I'll view it as being around another woman. However, are
there other things that I should be aware of? Can I just be normal, a
man? Thank you.
IS
ATTRACTED TO TGIRLS
Subj: Wonderful
Date: 4/23/2003 10:46:34 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hello:
I want to thank you for this web page and all the infomation. I'm a 45-year-old male who, for a long time, has been interested in those that are transgendered. There was so much info and thought in your pages, I really am grateful to have read and saved your page.
The only thing is, not all men are creeps and bad guys. To me, there is no difference between a GG and a transsexual woman, except that a GG takes for granted the things she has and a transsexual woman makes the best of what she has and always looks good, and lives life to the fullest. Trust me, I know this because I'm married and she doesn't care how she looks anytime.
I know you will think
I'm "one of those men" because I'm married and looking to meet
someone nice, but the truth is not all marriages last forever and only
some are fairytale-like. I found out after that I am bisexual but have
never been with anyone other than the wife. I would like to someday meet
someone that I can relate to and date (sex isn't everything). In fact,
it should be on the lower part of any list on things to look for. I really
don't want to take all your time up, so I will say thank you again for
all the rich words that you have written.
--Peter.
TGIRL
IS NO RAVING FEMINIST
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 4/23/2003 7:08:38 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Your website has it sooo right. I'm separated from one of those ultra-feminist
GGs and dating a pre-op TS I knew from work. Best thing that's ever happened
to me.
WANTS
TO EXPLORE WITH A TGIRL
Subj: website
Date: 4/23/2003 8:28:55 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi, I just want to thank you for your website, "TS Girlfriend." I am in the process of exploring my sexual self, and have been intrigued by transsexuals. I would love to sit and talk, get to know one, and after reading part of your guide, I am sure this will help. I am not gay! Sexual encounters with men are something that does not appeal to me, but I want very much to give pleasure to a transsexual. I hope after reading the information you provide, this will help this "experiment," "fantasy," "dream," or whatever you want to call it, become a reality. Thanks again.
--Dave.
GREAT
TGIRL FINDS A GUY
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 4/21/2003
5:12:14 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I want to thank you for giving me the opportunity to be a part of a website
that I am sure will give more insight on what women like me are looking
for in a man for a long-term relationship. Because of your website, I
was able to meet a wonderful man. We have had a series of dates and have
a genuine interest in exploring a relationship with one another.
He is an exceptional man with many of the qualities that I am looking for in a mate. So I am asking that you remove my pic and email address from the website so that I can dedicate my full attention to the possibilities that this new experience has afforded me. Thank you again and hope that you keep the website. There are many exceptional TS women, and men that find us appealing, who are geninuely interested in having a relationship that goes beyond sexual gratification.
Thank you again.
--Ashley.
FOR TGIRLS WITHOUT
A MAN
Subj: pics
Date: 4/21/2003 6:19:44 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi, first of all, I would like to say that this is such a wonderful service for all the TS's up and coming to the already established TS's that are living without a man who love them. This service has brought so much light and hope to all TS's lives. The reason that I am writing is to find out abou getting my picture on. And are their any pages on your site that a TS can put info about herself (such as a profile of likes and dislikes)?
--Jenn.
TGIRLS
-- FLY THE FRIENDLY SKIES
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 4/13/2003 4:07:41 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi. This is the best web page on the subject so far. Tgirls are humans, sensitive and very attractive most of the time. I wish to congratulate the man who wrote the "Revelations" comment on the Tgirls letters index page. Unfortunatly my English is not that good. I sure wish to savor and get to know them better. I just got to the US two weeks ago, from Venezuela. I am 55 years old and am a very happy pilot.
Best regards,
--Andy.
CHECK
THE TGIRLS SEEKING LTR SECTION
Subj: Please Help Me
Date: 4/10/2003 11:25:47 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I am
an extremely nice, sensitive guy, who truly enjoys a nice person. For
various reasons, I am very attracted to pre-op TS girls. I have been a
professional person, and love a lady who is very feminine, that also has
a dick. Silly me.
I have been with many Tgirls for pay, but would really like to connect
with someone who wants a real relationship. I have been a good person
in my community, contributing much to improve the lot of humankind. But
now I want to take care of myself, after the end of a 10-year marriage
to a GG.
Can you please direct me to a place/website where there are real, genuine,
Tgirls that are looking for a real man to love and enjoy them? I am very
masculine, but enjoy both the feminine and penis apsects that go along
with a transgender lady.
Thanks for any help you can provide. I live in (Northern California),
and travel periodically to SF.
Regards,
--Norm.
FELLA HAS
A TGIRL DATE
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 4/10/2003 12:19:40 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi, I'm planning a date with a TS currently. Your article has been very helpful in understanding the TS. Thank you so much. Hopefully the date will go well.
THE MODERN WOMAN
Subj: hi
Date: 4/10/2003 12:19:26 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Read your stuff.
You're on point about the modern woman. I, as many guys feel, women are so busy being like men that they lose their feminine qualities. This is a biggie.
As for deniability and all the rest, it fits to be sure.
--Jack.
PREVIOUSLY
MISUNDERSTOOD DESIRES
Subj: Thanks
Date: 4/8/2003 7:21:09 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
The articles
I read on your site were very informative. I finally am getting some understanding
about
my previously MISunderstood desires. Keep up the great work.
--Eric.
WE
PROMOTE MAN BASHING
Subj: a good man
Date: 4/8/2003 8:01:41 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Greetings.
I am very interested
in meeting new and exciting people. For as long as I can remember, I have
had great respect for females. I have five older sisters and they are
the most important people in my world. I have also learned much about
females from them. I was married for 16 years and now find it very difficult
to find someone worthy of my partnership.
Coming up on
40 years old, I have found that most females have been beat up by men
in their past. I have been attracted to TS's for a long time, however
I have found many of them to be just like all women: Basically saying
one thing and meaning another. Although I have only dated a few TS's,
they seam to have this obsessive attraction to me. I went to your site
to find a sincere person, yet all I found was man-hating comments and
people hiding the fact that it's all about sex. I feel that your site
is misleading to the TS's that have their information posted because all
it does is promote man bashing.
I have many female friends that have been in bad relationships and think that all men are dogs. I tell them all the time if they think that about all me then there is no possibility of them find a good one because they have such a closed mind. I was disappointed when I read some of the terrible things about men you have on your site, mainly because some of the TS's listed seem like really nice people. Every gender has good and bad it is sad to think we have come this far and learned nothing.
Thank you for your time.
--A good man.
TGIRL
SAYS ARTICLE ROCKS
Subj: Your article rocks
Date: 4/7/2003 2:56:47 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I'm going to forward your article to every guy who asks me out from now on. Thank you SO much for writing this.
--Erin.
TGIRL
SEEKING GUY WHO HAS READ THIS SITE
Subj: Feedback
Date: 4/6/2003 2:02:06 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
What can I say? I believe you said everything I've felt and said to men
for years now. Now, if only I could find that guy that is "real"
and has read your articles also. You write the truth about Tgirls' true
feelings and that's very refreshing. I have posted your link on my profile
and homepage and will refer men to it often. Perhaps we can educate some
of these guys? Keep up the great work! Big hugs from Louisiana,
--Melissa.
TGIRL
GETTING QUALITY DATES NOW
Subj: WOW
Date: 4/4/2003 1:17:00 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Since I've linked the TSGirlfriend website to my own, I have been getting
some phenomenal feedback. Sure, a few guys with the intelligence of wet
lettuce still instant message me looking for a cheap thrill. But, I've
actually met a nice guy or two and have had some outstanding dates! ("Dates,"
for all those who don't know what that is, means: Actually going out to
a movie or dinner and not being groped or pressured to "put out.")
It is so wonderful to go out with a guy and not get treated like a piece
of meat but like a human being.
We recommend those who wish to link to us use the HTML code shown at the bottom of this page. The ultimate benefit of doing that will be to boost our positioning in the search engines, and thus enable us to reach a far wider audience with our message, which benefits transsexual women everywhere. Thank you.
TGIRL
SENDS GUYS TO THIS SITE
Subj: Dating Articles
Date: 4/1/2003 1:03:38 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I am a pre-op in Seattle, WA. I date about two or three times a month. My goal is to date out only to straight places and be accepted and treated as a lady in public. I now send your site to all men interested in dating me.
It has opened many men's eyes, that we all are not all out for only sex.
Love,
--Ashli.
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