TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

August, 2003

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THE SHEMALE ESCORT SPEAKS
Subj: Dating a pre-op TS article
Date: 8/27/2003 10:22:10 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I disagree with one of your comments: You said that shemale escorts can't have a good relationship. I'm an escort and have been in a relationship now for three years. We love each other very much. He knows that I'm not sexually attracted to these men that PAY me. Very nice article but the word underlined explains it all!

--Jessy.

Re-read the article. Slowly and carefully this time.

GG IS MORE COMFORTABLE AROUND MEN
Subj:
Date: 8/22/2003 3:45:48 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Dear TSgirlfriend:

I am a woman (GG) who doesn't know much about transgender or anything like that. So if I sound ignorant at all, please do forgive me. I just wanted to speak of something you talked about and that I am in agreement with: As I read your article, I noticed you said that you spoke of GG's of today who are too assertive, are a pain in the ass to be around, and one gentleman said dating a so-called "independent woman" was like dating your brother.

I could not agree more. I myself am a very feminine woman, and I even find women of today rather abrasive. I get along a whole lot better with masculine men and even shy men, too, much better.

Stangely enough, I actually find myself identifying with these TS women on your website because they seem, are indeed, by soul first and then by body, feminine first in soul, then complete that by becoming bodily a woman.

I have always thought that masculine and feminine are not always necessarily man and woman. Oddly enough, I learned this from a pastor (whom many people did not like and to this day many don't approve of as he does not like religion per se) who said that when a human is born, it may be born man or woman, but within the soul are both femininity and masculinity, and even he would say that some men who wanted to be women were actually just trapped in a man's body. So I accepted that, as it made a lot of sense to me, the distinct difference between man/woman and masculine/feminine.

Anyway, I just wanted to give a little feedback to your page, which is fascinating, and all the women look GREAT and could give me a run for my money.

--Jenna.

THIS POST-OP GETS ASKED OUT-2
Subj: Update......
Date: 8/24/2003 8:55:31 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi, my name is Ranae Paige, I am a 38-year-old post-op TS woman residing in Pennsylvania. I had my SRS surgery, May 21, 2003. I have been wanting to have this done for 20 years. I was recently granted approval to have my name legally changed, legally. FINALLY, I AM LEGAL!!!

While I was exploring my new world, I was having fun, but did meet a lot of "jerks." I have recently found a really sweet and carring young man and even though we have only started our relationship, as each day passes, we are growing closer and stronger. This surgery is the best thing I have ever done for myself. I wish all pre- and post-ops the very best of luck in your futures. I'd like to have a pre- and post-op TS party, dinner, if at all possible. Thank you for reading. You are loved!

--Ranae.

(Ranae's first letter is below)

THIS POST-OP GETS ASKED OUT
Subj: Re: my experince.........
Date: 8/17/2003 10:17:44 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi, my name is Ranae and I am a post-op TS. I also hear that men are only interested in pre-ops due to them havung the something extra. Well, I have found that that is not really true. Yes, a lot of men still prefer pre-ops, however, there are a lot of men who love us post-op TS's. Ever since my surgery in May, 2003, I have guys asking me out on a daily basis. I'm thinking about seriously opening an all-night club...LOL...NOT! I am learning that the guys are paying more attention to me than they did before my SRS. I don't understand it, but I can't stay clear of them. Now, a lot of them will think that I am serious and mean this to hurt them. Get over it, I don't like hurting anyone.

--Ranae.

WHAT DO GUYS WANT FROM A TS?
Subj: Want a Man Wants?
Date: 8/13/2003 6:01:44 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

There are so many great articles here at TSgirlfriend. I know most of them focus on telling guys what we want, expect, need, and desire. I'm curious, though, what is it that a man wants, expects, needs, and desires from a relationship with one of us? And not just the vague cliches we always hear. I'd like to know the real heart of the matter, since most of our heart has been exposed for all to read.

--Melissa.

NOTES & FLOWERS-2
Subj: Your latest!
Date: 8/12/2003 11:39:33 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

CONGRATULATIONS ON A WONDERFUL ARTICLE!!!

Michael, if you weren't already taken, I would be making offers that may embarrass even you! You really have a winner here in your latest addition ["Your T-girl Should Be a Happy Girl"] to the growing pages of your site. You must, indeed, be an amply rewarded man! (Pay attention, Nikki). Congrats, congrats, congrats!

Most sincerely,

--Marie.

NOTES & FLOWERS-1
Subj: Happy T-Girl Article
Date: 8/12/2003 4:20:13 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Once again, you've pointed out the obvious that a lot men don't realize. Especially the flowers and little notes that are so special when done sporadically. I adore the strong masculine qualities of a man. I adore them even more when he lets me know how much my feminine qualities mean to him.

--VenomousAngel.

YES, ALL MEN PROBABLY ARE PIGS
Subj: The Pre-op in the boyfriend hunt
Date: 8/9/2003 3:18:21 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Just to comment on "Men are Pigs" issue, this may be true. I'm a 36-year-old SWM who is in the TS girlfriend hunt. Now, men are very sexual in nature, and of course it's always on our mind. We can't change this, niether can nature. I find that TS women are just as sexual as I am, they just hide it behind female sensibility.

--Doug.

TGIRL TO TGUY LOVE
Subj: Comment
Date: 8/7/2003 8:01:20 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

I thought your article interesting, but you have forgotten an important sexual group that would be attracted to TS gals and that is TS men.

There is nothing more devine that trans-to-trans love. We have a complete understanding of each other's situation.

Just thought I would point that out.

Thanks.

SO SPOT ON
Subj: great site
Date: 8/5/2003 12:30:13 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Just thought I would drop a wee note to say great site and the information is so spot on, keep up the good work.

--Chris.

NOT ALL MEN ARE PIGS, HE SAYS
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 8/5/2003 12:15:14 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I take great offense in the way you portray men on your page. Not all guys are two-faced as you say and it should be noted on your page. Most of the women I've met are the "pigs," as you call it, thinking that just because a guy is nice it means they can treat him like shit and give him no respect. It is my opinion you have to give respect to get respect although I do think you are running a site that promotes good behavior and good manners. I think it is better not to stereotype men. I assume that is not what you were trying to accomplish but that is the way the page is coming off. I give all women the respect they deserve and think that all men should do the same. I hope that I have not offended anyone with my words and hope to be able to continue looking to this page for any answers I may need to the countless questions that seem to come up in the dating life.

Thank you for all your hard work and time put into this site and may God always hold you close to his heart.

--Big John.

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