TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

February, 2004

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

IT PROVED USEFUL
Subject: A thank you
Date: 2/19/2004 10:59:25 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I would like to thank you for the website and information regarding transgender, transsexual dating. I may never find anyone else (I'm not looking) that I would have enjoyed dating or spending time with as much this one woman. But It has been most useful in understanding.

With respect,

--Glenn.

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
Subject: hello I enjoyed reading your website
Date: 2/14/2004 6:30:39 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

I really enjoyed reading about how to date a transsexual woman. Also I totally agree about your annaylsis of guys acting like pigs, but there are two sides to the same person. I definitely love pointing out that a girl can also approach a guy, that is the hardest part about starting a relationship. Is your girlfriend a transsexual?? How is that going? I hope all is well. Have a good day and happy Valentines Day.

Sincerly,

--Jason.

THE SUBJECT IS GIRLS
Subject: TS dating
Date: 2/13/2004 10:38:49 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

After reading your article on TS dating, I see nothing that mentions about TS lesbian dating. It all refers to the girls who date guys. I am a TS lesbian, and yes we do exist, the same as any other genetically-born lesbian female. I would like to see you include some articles pertaining to our lifestyle as well.

--Wendy.

WELL EXPLAINED
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 2/12/2004 6:57:20 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Very well thought out and well-explained articles, great understanding, many questions I have asked myself, thanks.

CLASSY, USEFUL, TASTEFUL
Subject: What a superb website!
Date: 2/11/2004 9:37:38 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I have to write and tell you what a superb website you have created. Naturally I have bookmarked it and I will be back to visit again and again. I found it almost by accident. I am travelling to New Jersey on Monday next and I was doing a Google search on NJ and transsexuals and bingo!

I am a British guy living in Hamburg, Germany, and I am a man who loves Tgirls. Having had a few affairs with TSs, I am now looking for a long-term relationship with a non-op TS. That is not what this email is about. That is just background so that you know where I am coming from. I also have some good TS friends; girls I correspond with by email or through a trusted community.

What really impresses me about your site is the standard of the articles and the overall atmosphere of respect and love for the girls. You hit exactly the right note as far as I am concerned. If you will permit me to quote from an email I received yesterday from a TS friend in the States, "I am touched by your genuine concern about me personally and your respect for transgendered women in general." That's a TS talking about me but she could have been talking about you.

My only regret about the site is the fact that I have only found one European girl out there. (I know I am only looking for one, but you know what I mean). At least she is in Germany so I should email her.

Please keep on keeping on and congratulations once again on a classy, useful and tasteful web presence.

Kind Regards,

--Roy.

A TGIRL'S HEART
Subject:
Date: 2/11/2004 9:37:24 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello there,

I just ended up at your site and found it a wonderful site with a very good explanation for all us Tgirls and "admirers." When I was reading the stories and explanations on how to date a Tgirl, I started crying because I went to the same shit like all the others. I am Zohra, a Dutch, extremely tall TG, 2.03 meters tall and very voluptuous. When I go out on the streets, people starte at me because I am so big. Most men are interested in me (sexually) because they think I look so hot and horny but none of them is interested in my heart and my soul.

That is why i started my own website called "Girl Interrupted." You can find it at http://fire.prohosting.com/zohratg. This site must be my own outlet for my own emotions so that men or other people all around the world can read and see what goes on in a Tgirl's heart. Most people think we have no heart at all, that we are just sexual monsters without any sense of feelings. "We are gorgeous, so why should we have a heart?" Sometimes I think we are even more gorgeous then GG's but for the outside world and to be "sure" to get children, men choose a GG but for their real sexual needs they come to a Tgirl because we know what a man needs and what a man wants and how to please him. But mostly after they had sex with us, they dump us.

Thanks for your beautiful website.

Love and kisses,

--Zohra.

THE LOVE OF HER LIFE
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 2/9/2004 6:01:36 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Michael,

I must totally apologize for not being around and doing my part as a Room Monitor. Sorry to let you down. :(

I think it would be best if I stepped down from the roll of Room Monitor thus leaving it open for someone else who has more time to spend in the room on a regular basis.

Thank you so much for creating such a wonderful and safe haven for us ladies. If it weren't for your site, I would have never met my boyfriend and love of my life. I will stop by from time to time to see how things are going and just sit for a visit. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart. :)

Your Friend,

--Melissa.

WALKING SIDE BY SIDE
Subject: hello
Date: 2/7/2004 10:38:46 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

For some reason I did not think I would ever be able to meet TS women that I could talk to in a honest, sincere atmosphere. I understand many of the concerns I have read and the pain and suffering, men treating woman with lack of respect. I wish to develop naturally a relationship and marriage with a woman that understands that we are all human beings first. An equal partner walking side by side with a common goal of mutual respect. I do not know where to go from here except I am an open minded, passionate, kind and generous man that wants to be loved just as much for my inner qualities. there is a lot more. Any guidance will be greatly appreciated.

--Craig.

ANOTHER PART OF THE BAGGAGE
Subject: your site
Date: 2/4/2004 3:10:13 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

This website is a breath of fresh air in a sleazy trans-dating world. That said, I do have a couple of comments. Not every transsexual woman is young and thin, not every transsexual woman is uber-femme, that tends to be a characteristic of early transitioners. There are thousands upon thousands of transsexual women just in the US no one hears or knows about because they just blended in, and in doing so, they show that transsexual women, like all other women, come in all sizes, shapes and temperaments.

I'm an older transsexual/intersexual woman and I'm one of those women that you never notice unless I wish to be noticed. Born in '49, heavyset, reasonably attractive (I'm told) and now disabled, I've tried the online dating thing with no success. The only time I wasn't just plain stood up, the guy wanted sex with me in the back of his car...in winter. This after I had always gone to great pains to list myself as seeking a long-term relationship or its possibilities only.

Guys, the one aspect I have not seen discussed on this website is this. Most transsexual women spent time pretending to be men. If they worked in a blue-collar environment (and the majority did), they saw you at your misogynistic joking worst. If they were like me, it left a really bad taste with them regarding men. That is another part of the baggage.

Myself, I had given up on finding a nice guy even though I have a definite attraction to men orientation-wise. A surprising number of transsexual women do and yet find themselves often paired with another transsexual woman. These would be the women you are looking for, by the way. Being lonely, I'm willing to give it another shot, so if the webmaster wishes to list me, I'm Cathy, born in 1949, live in upstate New York (the Catskills) a hermaphrodite, so the op status thing doesn't really work with me and I'm a BBW who is well read and educated with long auburn hair, hazel eyes, no artificial parts (and all the right female ones) and quite "real" in every other regard as well. I have to use a cane to walk, so if that is a problem don't waste your or my time. If, however, you are looking for someone witty, good sense of humor who doesn't mind doing outdoorsy "guy" stuff (other than sports) and loves to cuddle, I might be the gal you are looking for, especially if you know the difference between intimacy and sex.

--Cathy.

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