TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

January, 2004

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

THAT CUTE GUY'S EMAIL
Subject: i am looking
Date: 1/29/2004 10:22:35 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

My name is Stella and I love your site. Great job, I love it and I am addicted. I was looking through the gentlemen's pictures and there is a guy I kinda would like to get to know. his name is {deleted) and I have been looking for his email or profile, and I can't find it. I was wondering if you guys may have it and let me know, please. I would also say keep up the good work and maybe host a transsexual dating banquet party, maybe in Hawaii or maybe a private party at a hall or something fun. Well, please email me, I would appercaite it.

IT'S HELPFUL
Subject: Great site!
Date: 1/27/2004 4:10:32 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

I am a pre-op T-girl and just found your site. It is very helpful! I am going to direct others to it. In one of the pages, someone sent a question about a
transsexual vigina, if it is functional and what it looks like. I had a GG friend ask me the same question and one of the best pages I found is www.annelawrence.com/twr.

It is run by a TS doctor, and has a ton of information including "after" pictures of SRS. My GG friend was surprised at how real they looked.

I thought it might be helpful information for your readers.

--Laura.

THINGS ARE LOOKING UP
Subject: Met the Most Fantastic Woman!!
Date: 1/24/2004 7:48:35 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I just want to say that I have met the most fantastic woman ever through your site, and age difference does not seem to matter to her at all. In fact, I get picked on whenever I mention it. She knows who she is, just a beautiful, tall girl from Arizona. We are not going to rush into anything, either. In fact, I would like to meet her therapist and discuss "us."

Your website, along with DrBecky.com, are probably the two best sites around in order to understand what it means to be a transgender and how we "males" should act. We should act no differently towards a transgender then any other girl. In fact, I think that a TS/TG is probably much nicer to be with. A warning to the guys, though, don't push it or you will end up losing. I just hope that things work out for us.

--Michael.

HAS NO CONCEPT
Subject: DAVID'S LETTER
Date: 1/22/2004 12:06:19 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Why is David visiting this website? Is he a voyeur?

It's obvious that David [bottom email] has no concept of a TG/TS woman. We are not gay or perverted, many like myself were born intersexed...and I have been able to live two different lives, not many people get that chance. As a pre-op TS (no SRS), I guess I seek a different relationship than most. I certainly don't consider myself gay, lesbian, or whatever, just human.

David, men are not pigs; I was one. I suggest you date a GG if they will have you!

--Laurie, Oregon.

SENDING INVITATIONS TO JOIN
January 12, 2004
via US Mail

Michael,

I have been very happy being a part of the TSGirlfriend.com family. I have been making a few friends, and I'm hoping that someday my relationship will come to pass. I will have you to thank.

This past year for me has been one of a lot of changes. Since I left my job in April of last year, I've been adrift and uncertain about my future plans. TSG is giving me an avenue to a future that I might not find here in my hometown.

I have been inviting people from various parts of the online world, TS women alone and seeking, and men posting intelligent and sincere introductions and interest in a LTR. The biggest complaint I have seen out there is the difficulty in getting replies from others. I tell them that the chatroom is great for real-time introductions and lively chat with a wonderful and supportive family like the TSG folks.

Again, accept my thanks for all that you have done, and all that you are continuing to do for the community and us.

--J.B.

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
Subject: Article Feedback
Date: 1/12/2004 5:16:42 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I am responding to your article titled: "How to Date a Pre-Op Transsexual Woman." I thought this was well written and very, very informative. I am currently dating a TS woman and consider myself a straight man. I never expected that I would enjoy her company as I do and I certainly never anticipated it to be going so well. I think she is the most beautifal woman I have ever dated and I consider myself to be very fortunate. Thank you for your article and your website!

Happy New Year!

THE BETTER BOYFRIEND
Subject: did I mess up
Date: 1/4/2004 9:33:43 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Dear Editor,

Just got finished reading "The Great Boyfriend." Did I ever do it all wrong the first time I visited a club. But I learned from my mistakes. I think I did.finally find a website that doesn't candy coat it, but really tells it like it's happening out there. Believe me, it's happening just like you say, and then some. Sometimes I feel like chucking it all and just try being my own best friend, but smart enough to know that no man is a island, and neither is a TS for that matter.

--Kenny from Cleveland.

LOVE STARTS WITHIN YOURSELF
Subject: just some advice to pass along
Date: 1/4/2004 4:05:25 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: dxearlmarc3@comcast.net
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

First, I have been a frequenter of the website for many a month and find it to be carefree, sensitive and all-around terrifc site!

Second, I have also found it be serious, sensible, and of course, practical!

I had to write to pass some advice to the gentle reader some info that could be vital to them.

I am a single, sane, non-criminal and upbeat. Yet, at times, when I approach a woman, whether she is a transperson or not, I have been told by some, hey you're not my type! As though I am being judged on the tone of my skin, my body size and finally the size of my financial status. What happened to pure, old-fashioned romance?

I am one who loves to travel, loves to show affection whether it be holding the door open as she enters a room, or stands prior to her leaving to "powder her nose" and her return, or even to ask before a kiss goodnight on a first date.

Yeah, though I am one that does not believe in the edict of "wham, bam, thank you ma'am," I do know when the time would be right when to have intimacy with a lady. Is this wrong?

I am trying to not be judgmental and not overzealous but I have my standards and don't know if I might be one that has been told, time and time again, "You are too good to be true"! Yes, this is one fellow that keeps getting pushed to the end of the line and remains last. And I never hear from the woman again.

What happens when a gentleman or woman of ordinary caliber sees in a woman or man a chance for the inner beauty of a love shine through, not based on outer characteristics, would they survive? For everyone, male and female, no matter what their birth gender, romance is out there and we can connect with it if we have love in our hearts in the first place!

Happiness comes from within, at least that I was taught.

--Marcus.

ARE YOU SERIOUS?
Subject: Pigs and plumbing
Date: 1/4/2004 2:11:17 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Since I've never been a player, never told a women I loved her to get her into bed, never been unfaithful, and have always been a gentleman, I disagree with your assessment that all men are pigs.

Even though I have never knowingly had a conversation with a transgendered female, let alone dated one, we are in agreement on the difficulty a pre-op transsexual faces in finding a straight male companion. Your advice to any straight male who is interested in a transgendered female is to ignore the plumbing. Are you serious? This may come as a big surprise to you but straight men are attracted to women for two reasons: their femininity and their plumbing.

Like you, I also make the distinction between sex and gender. I do believe that a women can be born in a man's body. I do not believe you can ignore the plumbing. If you can then you are somewhere else on the sexual preference spectrum and you are not straight.

I enjoyed your website.

--David.

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