TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

January, 2006

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

HOW HE SEES TGIRLS
Subject: I love this site!
Date: 1/30/2006 4:26:02 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I stumbled across this site and I love it. There are so many Tgirl porn sites out there it's pathetic. But what is needed are sites like this one. Those other sites feed into the stereotype that all men are pigs and are only motivated by getting a Tgirl into bed. I, for one, do not fit into that category. What is important to me are not only the physical aspects, but even more importantly, the romantic aspects. The sweet messages on the answering machine, watching the sunset on the beach together, curling up together on cold wintery nights. Those are the things that I value.

More times than not, the ads that I've seen in classifieds are men looking to get a quick BJ from a Tgirl and then cast her aside and go back to an unappreciative genetic girl who in reality could never measure up to the sensuality of a loving Tgirl. I see Tgirls as a beautiful alternative to genetic females. They should be respected for all that they do to make themselves as beautiful as they are and not be reduced to a mere sexual fantasy. Thank you again and I will visit this website frequently. BRAVO!

ISRAELI SEEKS NICE TGIRL
Subject: looking ONLY for a serious ltr
Date: 1/29/2006 3:11:03 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Good day,

I'm a 33-year-old guy from Tel Aviv, Israel, and am looking for a true LTR with a transsexual. I've looked in every possible place for a decent and good girl, but I have not found true intentions from the other side. I think I have a lot of things to offer a girl, and I still don't know what the problem is.

I have short black hair, brown eyes, I'm 5'10" tall, 150 pounds, I'm slim with a great-looking body. I'm honest and shy and I wouldn't bother you with this request by emailing you in the middle of the night if I weren't serious. I'm looking for a lady age 27-32, shorter than me and slim like me. I like to go to movies, dislike crowded and noisy places, I like the beach and listening to good music. I'm very shy and love to kiss with a lot of passion. I'm looking for similar qualities in my future girlfriend. I hope you can at least find me a penpal so I can see how it goes. Thank you.

--Shoni.

SEEKING A RELATIONSHIP SITE FOR TGIRLS
Subject: Dating
Date: 1/26/2006 10:44:42 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I am a post-op TS who is looking for a relationship/romance-oriented TS site. Are there any available? I have been searching on Google but all the sites I found were just porno. I have been dating straight men so far but I am tired of the"guessing games." I am looking for a serious relationship with a man who knows immediately I am post op and don't want to surprise him later. I have been a post-op TS for 11 years. I was married and divorced but still haven't fond that special love. Does it really exist? I also love men in uniform. Cops, Marines, military men. Can u advise me of a romantic TS site where I can meet men for romance and relationships? Thanks in advance.

--Sara.

WHERE TO FIND TGIRLS
Subject: Im very interested.....
Date: 1/19/2006 8:40:30 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I wanna open up here with telling you that I can't get this thought off my mind. I was married for 10 years and have two kids. Ive been single now for about seven years, with many relationships, but not wanting to remarry.

Some days I can't get a transexual woman off my mind. I've never had a relationship with one and I don't have a clue where to begin to look. The city where I live is a major city and I would like some tips on where to find such dates. This is not for the initial sexual desire, this would be for something long term, if everything seemed to click.

Thank you very much.

OF GGIRLS & TGIRLS
Subject: How to Date a Pre-Op Transsexual Woman
Date: 1/17/2006 11:05:00 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Loved your article, however it didn't address the situation I'm in. I'm a dyke MADLY in love with a beautiful TS. We have a wonderful life.

Anyway, good article, now if someone would only write one about genetic girls involved with Tgirls.

Thanks!

--Jen.

ATTENTION TGIRLS: NOT ALL MEN ARE PIGS
Subject: All men are not pigs
Date: 1/17/2006 10:27:20 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello, my name is Jimmy. I have been living in Las Vegas for the past seven years having moved here from the Denver area. Having had dated several TS women in my life (some seriously), I felt I must comment on your article which several times refers to men as being "pigs." I am pretty sure in many cases this could be true, especially of younger, less experienced men who really don't understand TS women at all.

However, most men I've met who have met and dated these beautiful people don't see them as anything less than real women, and in many cases including my own, I prefer a pre-op TS, especially if well endowed, since I am bisexual. Also, in your article, you refer to the fact that men sometimes think of Tgirls as sluts because of the porn industry, etc. But, in my experience, most of the Tgirls I have dated used their sexuality to make a living in one way or another because it was difficult for them to find gainful employment. Some were TS exotic dancers, Internet models, phone sex girls and other seemingly seedy professions.And other girls weren't working at all, but were looking for a serious way to make a living . It wasn't that they wanted to do these things for a living, but rather it was all they could find at the time. But that doesn't mean they were sluts or less than desirable people.

One thing I will say about the many Tgirls I have dated and have been around is that they are much more sexual beings than GG's and are much more aggressive sexually than GG's. That doesn't make them sluts and it doesn't make a man a "pig" because he finds that extremely desirable and something that is seriously lacking with real GG's. The Tgirl doesn't say, "Not tonight, I have a headache." She says "Don't just stand there, kiss me, you fool."

My point is...give a guy a chance. Some of us are understanding, experienced and compassionate, even if we're just average guys. Thanks and I like the website. And is that a real picture of you on that page? If so, you are quite beautiful and have a lovely smile.

--Jimmy.

I'm a guy, but thanks anyway.

THOUGHTS ON POST-OP TGIRLS
Subject: Hello - My Thoughts on Post Op Transsexuals.
Date: 1/14/2006 9:31:14 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi TSG,

I clicked on your website this morning and thought I'd bounce a note.

I am a recently divorced 44-year-old man. After 17-1/2 years of marriage, my ex-wife blew me away with the news that she didn't love me anymore. I was totally taken by surprise. Throughout my marriage, I was 100% faithful and never cheated on her. Anyway, after lots of healing, seeing a therapist for six months, and over the course of TIME (the real healer), I'm moving forward with my life. This is not to bore you but to give you a quick background on me.

Now that I've done that, I can tell you in the last year I've been watching the Discovery Channel as well as other shows and I must say some post-operative transsexual women are absolutely beautiful to me. When you see these shows, their new vaginas look normal. Without a doubt, if I saw one of these attractive woman in a bar, restaurant, coffee house, I would not think twice to go up and say hi and introduce myself to them. If only I knew where to go and meet them where I live. Dating one of these ladies could be awesome. I mean, who better to understand a man but a woman today who used to be a man?

Well, that's about it for now. Bounce me a note when you get the chance. And just to concur with what I read on your website, for me without a doubt as long as the TS woman has had her operation and is now a physical woman down below, I would not think twice to do the deed with her, of course that is if she'd want to be "doing the deed" with me too.

Have a nice weekend.

--Val.

COMMENTS ON ADMIRERS OF TGIRLS
Subject: Admirers?
Date: 1/13/2006 6:32:23 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

First, I just wanted to say this is a nice site. Lots of great insight. Although having chatted and met some wonderful TG's the last couple years I have heard most of it and made most of the mistakes...LOL...already. However, it's still great to be reminded how I've screwed it all up. : ))

Anyway, just always have to toss in my few cents' worth. Now, having been talking and learning from these lovely young ladies, I also have a few comments and insights I'd like to add if possible. How might I start a commentary? I personally am not real big on most "admirers." I think they epitomize for the most part all the negatives listed by this site. Since let's face it, just as with standard model women (my own terminology standard or non-standard, hey, Dad was a mechanic for 50 years), guys usually just want one thing, sex. Oh yes, don't believe me? Well, I'm not kidding, really I'm not. LOL.

Well, as for me, I'm just looking for friends right now. I've got too much baggage for now and am not in a position to treat a woman the way she deserves. 'Cause when I do start dating and when I do decide I want her, then I'm there, my friend, I am there. I take it very seriously.

Well, if you have room for an admirers comments, let me know.

Have a great day and congrats on a very nice place to visit.

--Kirby.

REFERRED OTHER TGIRLS TO IT
Subject: Seeking LTR list
Date: 1/12/2006 1:53:36 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

THANK YOU for such an awesome website I have read everything here more than once and have referred other girls to it.

Thanks again,

--Rachel.

EYES OPENED ABOUT TGIRLS
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 1/6/2006 9:40:12 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Great articles!

This has really opened my eyes regarding this topic.

HIS TGIRL LIKES THE TSG SITE
Subject: Re: another one, Michael...
Date: 1/1/2006 4:32:37 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

My ex-TS girlfriend had originally recommended your site to me...it's the only one she likes and approves of, even though, like most real TS women-she tended to stay away from other TS women while she was transitioning-and after being on the net for a few years, I can see why.

Our relationship was a few years ago -- I was in the military, and sent overseas for a few years -- kinda let her slip away. She is a post-op now, married, and had adopted two lovely children and we stay in touch. And ya know, she is fully aware that if anything ever happened between her and her husband, I'd be right there. It was not about what she had between her legs at the time (took me a while to find out-kinda of old-fashioned kinda guy, I guess), nor is it about that now. It was about love, and respect, and so much more-which is why I like your site.

Best wishes to you and yours, and to all of your members. Relationships are difficult, at best, adding gender dysphoria into the mix complicates it even more but, I am proof that it can, and does, happen. So are you. And tell Trina that I think she is the best thing since sliced bread...OMG!!!!

Keep up the good work, Michael!

--Terry.

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