TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

July, 2008

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

SOME TGIRL ADMIRERS WANT TO LEARN
Subject: A heartfelt comment
Date: 7/22/2008 8:17:41 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I came across your website quite by accident.this morning. However, due to my long-term interest (curiosity) regarding the challenges a transsexual endures daily, I read a number of the articles. My compliments to you and your staff for the immense amount of enlightening information you've made available.

While reading, I noticed that, understandably, the term "admirer" carried a negative connotation. I'm sure your reasons for doing so are valid. However, there are those of us, albeit only a few, who simply wish to learn more about the emotional and societal struggles that these ladies endure. In welcoming "outsiders" to learn about such things, you create an environment for intelligent and respectful discourse.

As an individual who is confined to a wheelchair, I now benefit from the advantages brought forth through the ADA, more specifically its public awareness campaign which helped to enlighten people as to the struggles a lot of us face on a daily basis. Preceding the ADA; the civil rights movement used the same basic technique back in the '60s, with the same outcome.

Since your chatroom is primarily for dating, why not create one room just for those looking for friendship? I would think it might still be possible to "weed out" the idiots who enter there just as easily as they can now.

Through education comes enlightenment

Respectfully,

--Ken.

SAY AGAIN?
Subject: question
Date: 7/12/2008 10:24:04 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I am a straight guy and appreciate your thoughtful website.

I read somewhere that pre-op TS girls do not want to focus on their genitals during sex. This did not make sense, so would appreciate an explanation and thoughts.

Thanks!

--T.C.

WELL-REGULATED TGIRL CHAT ROOM
Subject: Chat room
Date: 7/11/2008 1:43:33 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Thank you, M. I visited the room today for little while. It's really nice that the rules are heavily enforced. So many chat rooms are full of garbage. I appreciate not being solicited by prostitutes and spammers. And not having to deal with trollers filling up the screen with gibberish. Chat can be hard enough to follow sometimes without all that crap.

--Jack.

GOING LOOKING FOR A TGIRL NOW
Subject:
Date: 7/10/2008 10:45:02 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I applaud you on the way you explained the whole TS dating situation. I now know that is what I really want.

--Paul J.

AND IF THE TGIRL DATE DOESN'T END WELL?
Subject: Uhmmm, some questions.
Date: 7/9/2008 6:59:14 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I stumbled upon your page, and it really answered a lot of questions I had lingering in my mind. I have considered asking a Tgirl out. However, I'm afraid I might hurt her feelings if we don't connect. I feel somewhat bad about this, since deep down I know I probably wouldn't treat a GG this way. I feel bad about this, since I might really hurt her feelings if a date doesn't end well. What do you think?

--Haffe.

POLYAMORY & THE TGIRL
Subject: A question from a polyamorous man.
Date: 7/7/2008 9:51:54 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

I just spent the evening reading many of your terrific articles about dating a TS, (very well done!) and I have a question I was hoping you could discuss with me. I'm not sure if you normally get strange questions like this out of the blue, so if you've read this far -- thank you!

So -- I am, in fact, married to a GG. However, my wife and I are in a truly open relationship. We both sometimes may hook up with someone, but more often, we engage in earnest relationships with others, while still maintaining our own. She currently has a boyfriend of more than a year, and I was involved in a deep relationship with a GG for several years, which ended amicably, but sadly due to her need to move away.

Anyway -- I would love to date a Tgirl, but am not sure how my unique marital status will be perceived.

In the polyamorous community, there is obviously a whole set of vocabulary and different sets of etiquette which are pretty well understood, but I do not know if any of that is shared or understood in the TS community. I am not looking for a cheap thrill, and I am not cheating on anyone, and certainly do not want to use anyone or hurt anyone. I am a kind, loyal, intelligent gentleman who would love to have a TS girlfriend whom I would treat with dignity, respect and love -- just as I have with other girls -- but I am, in fact, married, and I fear that won't go over well outside of the largely non-TG "poly" community.

Thanks for reading this. I would love to hear your thoughts.

Sincerely,

--Joe P.

THE APPRECIATIVE TGIRL
Subject: Thank You
Date: 7/6/2008 7:52:16 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello Webmaster,

I just recently came across your site here and I just want to say that I really appreciate what you have done with it. In particular, I liked your advice for "When, Why & How to Tell Him That You're a Transsexual." Keep up the good work. =)

Thank you again,

--Katy.

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