TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

June, 2003

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

TGIRL WOULD LIKE A POCKET VERSION
Subj: ok :)
Date: 6/29/2003 6:24:53 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

How do I sign on your chatroom?

Actually, your site is so refreshing to read and see. As a TS with a busy schedule, law school, work and my transition, I seem to meet way too many of the "wrong" kind of guys online. You know the type, looking for fun with an escort.

OK, all we need now is a pocket version [of this site] to give when out as I have found many guys look at and admire a beautiful T-girl but are clueless how to approach or what to expect with us, at least men who are looking for more meaningful things.

Your site's a definately a step forward for us all. Thank you.

--Brandy T.

NO PICTURE FOR ME
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 6/26/2003 3:37:15 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

In response to Scott's letter posted on the Tgirl Letters Feedback page:

You must realize, that for many of us, posting our pictures on a site that identifies us as transsexuals would be a costly mistake. I could only imagine the problems it would cause if someone from my office with a malicious nature stumbled across this site and my picture were posted. The repercussions would be horrendous!

MORE THAN JUST TGIRL LISTINGS PLEASE
Subj: Questions on your site.
Date: 6/25/2003 12:18:39 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Very impressive site. As a male looking for a relationship with a Tgirl, I found your site very interesting. The one big drawback for me is I would like to see more than just an email address for contact. I'm one of the males that does not think with my lower head. Thus I'm not as good with social chat.

Do you have any plans of building a more dating-oriented site? I looked at Alt.com, very lousy site. I want what your site is about, a long-term relationship. But I would like to see a picture of who I'm send email to (face is more than enough) and would like to know some basic likes, just enough to figure who out who to talk to. Do you have a prefered dating service that you refer your visitors to? Soon as I can figure out what to write, I'll probably drop a line to the Men looking for LTR section.

Thanks for a nice site.

--Scott.

Producing a full-service contact section turns this site into a full-time job to manage things. Somehow people will have to pay for that. You'd pay to send email to the girls, or for a membership, or something along those lines. And so we have no plans to go beyond what we are right now. Any girl who wants a listing can send along a picture and a brief note to go with it, we often publish those.

BRAD MET AN ATTRACTIVE TGIRL
Subj: thank you
Date: 6/23/2003 4:06:37 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I'm a male who met a TS and I am very attracted to her. I was not sure how to approach her about a date. This page has given me a lot of information about how to ask her out and treat her as the beautiful woman she is.

Thanks.

--Brad.

ANOTHER OF OUR TGIRLS FINDS A MAN
Subj: Removal of listing on site
Date: 6/17/2003 2:19:08 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello once again,

I am writing to happily report that I believe I have met a very special man, and out of respect for him, I would very much appreciate your taking my email listing off your site.

If things do not work out, I will be back, but hopefully not anytime soon. I sent him to the site for reading as he was also having "family and friends" issues. I believe the site has helped him a bit in his understanding and how to best approach his new feelings and hopefully his future with a wonderful transsexual woman -- me! (Smile.)

Thank you so much!

--Dana.

TGIRL GETS GOOD EMAILS
Subj: Letters from men
Date: 6/16/2003 9:27:06 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I just noticed you've added a section for men to list themselves, or at least their letters. I think this may be a good Idea. FWIW, I must tell you since I'd been listed I have been corresponding with three guys who are local to me. I did meet one just a day ago, just a casual restaurant meeting. I believe everything went well, we'll see. I did have one guy who canceled out on a coffee shop meeting within a few hours of the appointed time, and have not heard anymore from him. I also got emails from several others who are not even remotely local and I don't expect anything to come of those at all, however pleasant correspondence is always a good thing.

Just for what it's worth,

--Marie.

POST-OP TGIRL SAYS ALL WENT WELL
Subj: Nikki's article
Date: 6/16/2003 9:33:08 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Read her story/theory of post-op dating and I find it to be very true, from my own experiences. I've dated men after my surgery, men who did know, and men didn't know, of my SRS. None unsatisfactorly. Just wanted to thank Nikki for her input into post-op TG dating. Thanks.

--Shelley.

TGIRL HAS HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
Subj: Please add me to your list
Date: 6/12/2003 5:35:16 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello, I'm a post-op TS and I would like to be added to your list for a relationship.

Thanks for the wonderful site you offer. Your words of wisdom gave me hope for the future. God bless and keep up the good work.

--Cassie.

A NICE TGIRL IS HIS DESIRE
Subj: (no subject)
Date: 6/11/2003 8:56:00 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

This is the most amazing thing I have ever read. Wow. All you ladies forgive me. I guess I have been guilty. Please forgive me.

I would love to have a sweet girl to care for and be my partner my friend, someone that shares, and of course be a lady always. I would treat her as lady always. And she will be well loved, courted every day.

--Michael.

POSSIBLE DIVINE INTERVENTION
Subj: Advice Please
Date: 6/1/2003 8:27:39 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello, I stumbled across your website, or did I? Maybe it was divine intervention or something Like it? Anyway, I want to thank you for a well written and thoughtfully constructed website, it is long overdue. There just isn't enough sound information out there until now regarding dating, transsexuals and men. Here you do a wonderful job at discussing the real person and how important it is in ANY relationship to treat each other with dignity, respect and love.
On that note I would like to ask a question, one most likely already asked, but perhaps differently?

What sincere method would you recommend for me to meet a level headed, educated and sincere transsexual woman for a long-term relationship and possibly marriage? Before you answer, let me explain my question, it seems as though it is very difficult for an educated, professional airline pilot like myself to first find, then meet and then date a classy transsexual female. It seems like they are "hidden" within the fabric of society, passing if you will so well, that it seems impossible to find them.

Am I asking for too much to find a TS woman whom is my equal or close to it in education, morals, integrity, honesty and a professional? It seems like most TS women that are available either have some severe personality problems or they are shemale escorts or they really are not interested in a sincere LTR.

I have given the genetic girl dating approach most of my life, but the reality is it just isn't me, I don't feel complete. I have been with a few transsexual escorts and have met some nice girls at a transgender conference or two and feel relaxed and at ease with them. Maybe I am somewhat transgendered myself, but my point is that I long to meet a TS woman whom I can fall in love with and move forward in life. Can you help?

I realize you don't "hook" people up, what I am asking for is strategies for finding that special girl?

Thanks for taking the time to read this long note, I hope you take the time to answer. Best of success to you, take care.

--Capt. W.F.

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