TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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MEET THE RIGHT TGIRL
Thank you for your article, "Having Sex with a Transsexual Women: How to Make Love with the Transsexual Female." The article makes good reading, I am a person that loves Tgirls for who they are, and yes sex is the very best, and kissing is heaven. I do not have a special woman at the moment, and find it hard as my work takes up a big part of my time. I can only wish one day to meet that very special one. Again, thanks for the article
NOT SURE THAT
TGIRL IS REAL
I'm bisexual but mostly straight and I've been looking for a pre-op transsexual girl for a while now. Finally, on a site, I found an attractive one that had posted her email address. Her profile only had one pic and I was attracted to her right away.
I started up a conversation with her a few days ago and we seem to be hitting it off. However, she sent me a new pic of herself and it doesn't really look exactly the same as the last one. In the first, she looked like a pale Asian girl with a petite frame and B-sized breasts, It was a glamour-type shot and she was posing.
In the next pic, she looked much more tan, almost a different race, still petite with a similar build (still with Asian features) and she had slightly larger looking breasts. It was accompanied with a message that said she is a male who dresses up like a woman for work.
Wouldn't a Tgirl who already has breasts refer to herself as a woman? She said she needs a lover who can love her "male parts" (her words). I'm down for that, but I don't know if she's for real. Any advice?
HE'S IN LOVE
WITH A TS ESCORT
I'm 28, single, have a professional career and average looks. I have to admit I've known about transsexuals from porn, and I liked it. My first encounter with a Tgirl was back in 2005 and was purely about sex. It felt good but wrong. Then another sexual encounter came in 2008, and I felt the same way again.
After that, I searched on the Internet for transsexual escorts and had countless safe-sex encounters with many escorts. Some of them became my regulars, and some of them also took advantage of me (as I'm a kind). Some of them really liked me because I'm cute, not demanding and good in bed. But now, I have to admit I want a real relationship.
I had a recent encounter with an escort. I'm really attracted to her femininity, personality, intelligence, gorgeous looks and humility, and the sex was great (best I ever had). She said she enjoyed it. What I liked most was the chemistry between us. I suddenly realized I really want to have a decent relationship with this girl. The only time I feel this is when I fall in love, and that's rare for me. Here are some issues:
1. She has been disappointed before. Will she ever want to accept me? She's an escort. Will she ever change her ways and accept me more than a customer? Will she ever be attracted to me although I'm not the hunk with the good looks?
2. I've had sex with numerous escorts. Although I want to change and open a new chapter, my history suggests I want a TS for sex only. It's like a black mark against me.
This is the first time I've really had a dilemma about whether to push a step ahead in terms of relationship. I felt nervous in contacting her again. I guess those past experiences bit me today. My heart says, why not give it a try and see where this goes? I don't know why i'm suddenly thinking like this, why this attraction to her occurred in me so strongly.
To whom it may concern,
I want to let you know about my issues.
I love everybody for who they are, not for what they are and it includes Tgirls but I prefer to date transsexual girls because I feel closer and more comfortable with Tgirls. But it is also because of their lower parts.
I wonder, does that mean I love them for what they are? I am very confused...I surely want to date a Tgirl but I worry that I just love them for lower parts, but I don't want it to look like that.
I feel pretty bad about that and I need your help!
HIS AGE GROUP
I'm a reader of your site and benefit from it a good deal. But this article I mentioned on the title is kinda biased against my age range (I'm 34). In another article, it said that that "male bashing" is unacceptable, but yet although I cannot say it's bashing, there's an overgeneralization. Can't younger men be mature enough? Why is that we have to be trained?
Although it's a stereotype, older guys are said to be more inclined to be conservative and bigoted when it comes to sexual relationships and transsexuality than younger guys. This can be taken into account too, can't it? I can say that from my father and me too. I had sex with transsexual escorts for a time, but my dad cannot even stand the sight of transsexuals, yet alone touch them. What about this?
You can say that, as far my partners being escorts is concerned, "You can't have an open relationship with a TS girl, you're not to say this," but I'm not from US or Western Europe and the society I'm living in is far more conservative and nearly all TS people are escorts. They can't find a normal job because of their condition. Sad isn't it? Eventually we'll come to your societies' tolerance level, but in the near future, it'll be the way it'll go.
Anyway, back on the subject: There are valid points in this article, but I don't think it's 100% true, and it may hurt some perfectly sensible younger people reading it.
Regards from Istanbul, Turkey,
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