TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
March, 2007
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TGIRL
SEX: THE NITTY GRITTY
Subject: Honest question
Date: 3/26/2007 9:32:52 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi Danielle,
I have what I believe to be an honest question. I read what you wrote in "What a TS Woman Wants," and I have a question with regards to it.
I would like to find a TS, but in reading what you wrote, I am wondering now about it all. Would I be able to find a TS that I would love to treat as a woman, but in bed, we would both do all we could to please one another? Trying to be as polite as I can here, wouldn't she want me to go down on her, during lovemaking?
Politely, couldn't anal sex be enjoyed by both people during lovemaking?
--Bill.
FIRST
TIME SEEN A GENUINE TGIRL SITE
Subject: Glenn
Date: 3/24/2007 1:55:36 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hello there,
I was very impressed by your words on transsexuals, but not surprising as I have always had respect for any transgender people. Your site is excellent and most informative. I live in Australia, and to get a good article like this is important to me. I am a male admirer and have always been attracted to Tgirls, and for the same reasons in your articles, which set my mind at ease straight away. This is the first time I have seen a genuine site like this for genuine Tgirl lovers and admirers. I thank you very much, and would love to join your chat sometime.
--Glenn.
WHAT
DOES A PRE-OP TGIRL CALL THAT APPENDAGE?
Subject: TS girlfriend / What aTS woman Wants
Date: 3/22/2007 8:51:17 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi Danielle,
I just read it, agree 90+% with it. I'm writing a book called
"The Third Gender." I thought like you for many years. I do
believe we are the second female or the third gender. For instance, my
ex-boyfriend, a male that had never been with a TS, or better yet never
wanted to be with a man. He said I was the best lover he ever had. He
made things for me and bought me little things, surprises as you say.
He made me feel so good, you're right, I wanted to please him in return.
I have NO MALE SEX DRIVE! I don't "top" anything. But this is
where I've changed. My bf had many questions and didn't want to offend
me in anyway by what he said. He new that I called it my "clit/cock"
because that's what it is until SRS. He went down on me, his first time,
got me all excited, then made love to me. It was the best sex I ever had.
He treated me like a genetic woman. Oh yeah, forgot to mention, he is
a biker. I saw him be and act like a butthead like most bikers are. He
drank too much, but always treated me like a lady.
Ciao for now,
--Gina.
WHEN
TO TELL HIM YOU'RE A TGIRL
Subject: comment
Date: 3/22/2007 8:36:29 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Just saw your article on dating a post-op Tgirl.
As a "posty," I pretty much agreed with most of it. I could
nit pick as to why a lot of guys like us. But I think it has more to do
with cumulative male experience, rather than alpha male stuff. Like I
said, a bit of nit picking.
As far as dating; I'd say if it was a casual date, there is no reason
to tell. On the other hand, it's a good idea to get his phone number in
case it turns out there will be another date. At that point, I would tell
him (at a safe distance). My experience is if a guy knows from the git-go,
it usually turns into a "my history" date. If a guy is really
interested in you, he's known you not as a posty, but as a woman (GG),
and then accepts you as a special woman.
But overall, I found your article to be as spot on as any I've read so
far. Good work.
--Susan.
WANTS
TO MEET A TGIRL THE SAME WAY HE'D MEET ANY WOMAN
Subject: Hello
Date: 3/22/2007 8:32:41 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Dear Editor,
I want to thank you for putting this site on the Internet. The Internet
is mainly populated with transsexual escorts and porn sites, and I have
been frustrated by that. I want to meet a transsexual in a manner consistent
as to the same way I would meet a genetic woman. I read a few of your
articles and can't agree more on such subjects as Jerry Springer and how
to treat a transsexual. Though shy at first and not used to a chat room,
I will definitely use it in hopes of finding the right person for me.
Sincerely,
--Cliff.
NEEDS
MORE TGIRL SURGERY INFO
Subject: Hi this is Andrea
Date: 3/17/2007 6:04:52 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I saw your article and it is very impresive, There are many questions
I do have about the surgery, legal issues, etc. Do you know any website
or forum consisting of people that are post? I am thinking of having the
surgery, however I need to do my homework about the doctor, and so many
other details. If you know any, please let me know. Thanks a lot.
--Andrea.
HAPPY
TO BE ON A SPRINGER TGIRL SHOW
Subject: still open
Date: 3/17/2007 4:09:02 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
I would love to have been on Jerry Springer.
--Mark, Australia.
TGIRL
NEEDS ADVICE
Subject: hello
Date: 3/12/2007 7:08:06 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi! I just came across your articles on TS relationships and about your
wonderful website, TSgirlfriend. I am a TG from the Philippines and I
have a problem with my present relationship. I don't know where to turn,
who to discuss my predicament about my boyfriend's actions, or lack of
them. I wanna cry, I wanna scream and cry a lot, and I get nervous breakdowns
and don't know what to do! I was wondering how I can join your website
and discuss my problem, I really need HELP! I hope I hear from you soon.
Sincerely yours,
--Kim.
NICER
WORDS WOULD BE APPRECIATED
Subject: a question
Date: 3/9/2007 10:52:27 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hello,
I am a 23-year-old male from Morocco. I have been interested in transsexual women for quite a long time. I have to admit that my first knowledge of the world of the "aphrodistes" was through an encyclopedia, and it was back in my primary school days, but my first interactive contact with transsexuality was through the Internet. As you mentioned in your website, the Net is loaded with promiscuity that maims the perception of the male viewer, and I agree with you. However, your article, "The Pre-Op TS in the Boyfriend Hunt" was loaded with obscenities against men (men are dogs, men are pigs, men are killers and hunters that should be civilized, etc.), things which I agree with. But the use of these terms and expressions offends me very much, and I think other men would agree with me.
I understand the fact that these terms were used in an explanatory way so as to make it easier for the reader to understand the concepts, but in a way it reinforces the stigma on men, and that all men are alike. Anyway, all I wanted to say is that the use of more appropriate terms would be kind and sweet on the part of the author.
--Anas.
TGIRL'S
ARTICLE ON WHAT A TGIRL WANTS
Subject: What a TS Woman Wants
Date: 3/5/2007 8:13:16 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Daniella,
This is a very good piece which I read from start to finish. I appreciate this honest style and not condescending to us guys who have feelings but who are not always understanding.
Thanks again.
--Scot.
TGIRL
GETS A RELATIONSHIP
Subject: new relationship
Date: 3/5/2007 6:05:47 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com
Hi Michael,
I just wanted to tell you about a new relationship. I met a wonderful guy through TSMatch and TSGirlfriend a couple of months ago. We chatted for awhile, started dating, and now we're in a relationship. Thank you for providing both sites.
--RebeccaNC & Stacydrift.
OUR
REPLY TO JERRY SPRINGER ABOUT TGIRLS & HIS SHOW
Subject: Response to Jerry Springer Show
Date: 3/3/2007 11:45:07 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com
You go, boy!! I loved your response! muchos kudos for you!
I'm a pre-op MTF. Been transitioning for seven years. I'm SO ready to
have surgery but you know how it is. Anyway, I found your website and
read your letter and just had to write and say thank you.
I've lived in Nashville for the last four and a half years. It's pretty
conservative and I've had lots of challenges but I love the music scene
here. I host a writer's night at a popular venue and mix sound for bands
when I get a gig.
I don't have a real life, though. I just refuse to be some guy's discreet
sexual partner because they're too embarrassed to take me out. And the
ones that want to take me out that think I'm a GG or that I'm post-op,
then drop me like a hot potato when I tell them i'm pre-op. So, I feel
stuck in the middle. I hope I don't die this way. After losing everything,
it would be quite disappointing. I try to be hopeful but I just turned
50 and not getting any prettier or younger. I work hard to keep a good
figure and do the best I can with what I've got, but as you know, the
odds are extremely high against me. I have to balance my HRT with aspirin,
diet and exercise to keep my blood thin to prevent another clot, but it's
the price I pay for inner peace.
Sorry to write a book, but after reading your letter I know you can understand
everything I'm saying. Thank you for letting me vent and I hope I didn't
depress you. You're probably in the same boat! I wish you the best, hon.
Hugs!
--Farah.
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