TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

May, 2005

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

WHEN A TGIRL GETS BLOWN OFF
Subject: rudeness knows no bounds
Date: 5/29/2005 8:09:41 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi.

I just read your story about the guy who blew off your friend at the club only to act like it was nothing. You said, "he would never do that to a GG." The fact is that happens routinely to GG's thousands of times every night in clubs. GG's will even do it to guys. My guess is they are doing a little hunting or scoping out other potential persons of interest, and of course sometimes they just don't have the guts to say goodbye or even good night. Bottom line is that it is not you, or even anything about you.

Regards,

--Tomi.

THE BI GUY SEEKS TGIRL MATTER
Subject: Feedback - Jan 2005 - Bi Guy
Date: 5/23/2005 1:39:02 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hey, Michael.

I just read a letter entitled "Bi Guy Wants to Attract a TGirl." Maybe I can help shed a bit of light for him.

I can only speak for myself, but I would not want to date a bisexual man because, quite honestly, I'd never know for sure whether he saw me as a man or a woman. It was a long hard task to accept myself as I am, to take action on that knowledge, and to deal with "friends" and "family." So many people want to believe that I'm a man because I once had a thingie. I want my man to KNOW that I'm a woman and I want to KNOW that he KNOWS.

This may sound silly, but there it is. I hope this might help him. That being said, I'm sure there are women out there who feel differently than I. I hope he finds someone!

Blessings,

--Pearl.

THE TGIRL IN HIS DREAMS
Subject: Interesting Nightmare
Date: 5/15/2005 8:35:13 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I just took a nap in my hotel room and had the strangest dream imaginable. In my dream, I was having drinks in a bar, hitting on this very beautiful chick by talking all kinds of trash, telling all kinds of stories. Then, we went up to my hotel room and started kissing. Suddenly she said she did not want to go any further until she revealed a huge secret.

She pulled down her underwear and there was male equipment. I panicked and told her to immediately get out of the room but then "she" explained that "she" was really a woman trapped in a man's body and doing hormone treatments to make her body more femine and that "her" life had been hell because of "her" gender confusion. Somehow, there was something in her story that made me have deep feelings for and we picked up where we left off. Unfortunately, I woke up when we got to the good part.

I am really worried because I keep thinking about this nightmare and secretly want to act it out. is there something wrong with me?

--Kari.

HOPES TO MEET A TGIRL
Subject: Thank you!!!
Date: 5/7/2005 4:43:37 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me

Hi,

Just a note to thank you for your great efforts at informing males (which I am) about transsexual dating. I hope to meet that special person with the help you provided.

Thanks again.

--Michael.

MET A GREAT TGIRL HERE
Subject: Met great gal!
Date: 5/6/2005 11:19:28 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I had met a great gal through your site about 1-1/2 years ago. We have met and talked two or three times in person, in public, and had great conversations. She is now going to have SRS in Sept., and boy is she excited! I am truly glad for her, too. She has been through quite a lot, especially at work, being discriminated against, too.

Big problem for us is not my age, but my marital status. We have agreed to be friends and that we are. I think your site is great, and for me I think it has come too late, but, at my age (61), I finally figured out what I really have missed, and it goes back to when I was in school where one of my best friends (K-12 in school) and I were "close." I think if I knew then what I know now, we would have ended up as life partners. I feel he transititoned some years later, and for the past three years I have been trying to locate, but no luck. Does this make any sense? I guess there may still be some time to meet the "right" one, but who knows? I guess I have been hiding my feelings for way too long but not sure how to go about it.

--Michael.

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