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& THE PERILS OF TRANSITIONING
I was reading through the articles on your website, since I am very much a subject of your discussions. I am a 25- going on 26-year-old man dating a 29- going on 30-year-old pre-op TS girlfriend. I was reading your article about what kind of things to expect while dating. We have been together for nine months now and I have seen basically everything you have mentioned, other than the puberty confusion due to hormone treatment, since she hasn't undergone that phase yet.
I'm writing to ask you about a difficult situation for her that has been troubling her throughout her life, which is the criticism, hatred and indifference she has received, even from those who are from her own family. I believe that her inability to come out of her shell, so to speak, and move past these things is one of the reasons she is having such a difficult time moving into the next step of her transition. She is practically paralyzed with fear about wearing even her bra and panties in public, even when I accompany her. Fortunately, when we are alone at home, for the most part, she wears her bra and panties and allows her feminine side to come out.
I ask for your advice as to how best help her throughout this time, and see her progress into the beautiful flower I know she will be. I genuinely love her and we plan on being married before too long, so I am most definitely in it for the long run, I just am unsure as to how to help her through this. She is the first TS woman that I have ever known, let alone, dated.
FOR HIS TGIRL
2. Is there anything different
or extra over and above what I've read on massaging her vs. how it would
be done on a male?
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