TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

November, 2004

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

DIFFICULT SITUATION
Subject: HI
Date: 11/22/2004 8:55:05 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I came across your website/link and I find it very interesting and knowledgeable. I really need to find answers to all my questions about my present relationship. These are questions of whether I should stay or leave since I am really in a very difficult situation. I am on the verge of suicide because of it. Please help me or at least direct me on how to deal.

Thank you.

HAS ALWAYS BEEN BI CURIOUS
Subject: Great Info and site
Date: 11/19/2004 5:29:15 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I have always been curious about a TS girl. Finally explored my own bi side about three years ago. I was married almost 20 years and never alowed myself to explore what I felt inside after making the mistake of talking to my wife at the time about me being bi. Or at least interested in this. After my divorce, it was my girlfriend at the time that suported me in exploring this side of me. She thought it was cool, then she couldn't handle me enjoying being with a guy sexually. I'm now in a relationship with a bi female for a year now. Like me, she would love to meet and get to know more about a TS woman. We would welcome a great friendship with her. I did join the mailing list.

--Lewis.

QUESTIONS ABOUT POST-OP TGIRLS
Subject: Curiosity
Date: 11/11/2004 4:31:20 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I've been interested and curious about transsexuals, especially post-ops. I found your article on tsgirlfriend.com more informative than anything else I found anywhere.

Like most guys I'm homophobic, and didn't enjoy my first encounter with a TS because she felt like a man, it still didn't put me off. I've a few questions so please bear with me. There's no other source of such information.

1. What does being a post-op feel like? Do you feel there should be something down there and isn't? Is it more comfortable now with the clothing?

2. How does sex feel like? Was the prostate lifted to form the g-spot? Are you psychologically adjusted to the vagina, or does the subconscious thought of insering a penis into any orifice still linger? Does the operation make a difference?

3. How do you provide the lubrication? Did they reroute the glands, or do you have to use lube?

4. Is it sensitive like a GG's?

5. When with a man that you feel comfortable with, what positions do you prefer?

6. Do you now feel as apprehensive as a GG does about having sex, at least with someone you're not too familiar with? Most GGs' brains are hardwired into making sure her partner is serious and singleminded about her. Do you feel it has become that way for you since the operation, or since the hormones, or never?

7. Can you have multiple orgasms?

I'll appreciate any answers you provide. There are no other sources for such information, so you might consider putting them up as a FAQ on the site; I know I'm not the only one curious about these. Please don't release my email address, I'm still insecure. :-)

THIS TGIRL FOUND HER MATCH AT THIS SITE
Subject: RE: My Ad on TSGirlfirend
Date: 11/6/2004 11:38:02 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I have an ad on the TSGirlfriend site and I would like to remove it. I would like to remove it not because it isn't working, but because, yes, it did work. It's just that I found my special someone in life who I found in the city I live in. I did manage to speak to a few people and your site is a great way, and another avenue, for us in finding someone.

Thank you so much for everything.

Sincerely,

--Cheryl.

INCISIVE & WELL-WRITTEN ARTICLE
Subject: The Pre-Op TS in the Boyfriend Hunt article
Date: 11/01/2004 5:51:51 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hiya,

Excellent article, if a little hard on us poor animal guys. :) But truly, it's education on both sides. You can actually apply much of this to "GGs" as well (sorry if I haven't quite got all your terminology). Anyway, incisive, well written and definitely likely to get the warring factions together across the dinner table :) I can see how you may have had a good deal of success with this site.

My compliments.

--Jim.

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