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A TGIRL WANTS ARTICLE
I drove her home, walked her to her door, then she gave me a little kiss goodnight. She asked me if I really liked her. I said, yeah, why? Then she told me she was born a boy. I really didn't know how to handle that, I'd just been kissed by a boy. I first thought I might hit her, but that's not me. I just walked away.
I thought about this the whole night, but I wasn't really all that angry because I really did like her. I called her back the next day and said I was sorry. She told me that she understood why I walked off like I did. After our third date, we finally decided to have sex. It was weird at first, but I began to like it that my girl had something extra down there, but that weirded me out even more, so I broke up with her again. It was just too weird.
I don't think I'm gay. I have never had an attraction for another man. It just doesn't do anything for me, so I question whether it's a good idea to date a Tgirl because she has a dick. Was I wrong in the way I handled the relationship?
Thank you for providing this truly helpful and enlightening site.
I`m 61, could pass for 55 on a good day, widowed and wanting to find "the right one." I'm sincere, but new to Tgirl dating and really confused about how to say what I am looking for, or even how to describe myself. I`m a straight male and sexually attracted to femininity, but my buddies have always been more interesting, more fun and far easier to be around than the GG's in my life. My friendships have outlasted all of my romantic efforts. I'm hoping that a Tgirl would be the best of both worlds.
Am I suffering from unrealistic expectations? Would you give me a clue if I am clearly without one? Things get really confusing to me when sexuality enters in. I have always enjoyed mutual oral sex with my GG friends, and especially with my late wife. I really enjoy reciprocating and my GG lovers have enjoyed it as well. Is reciprocation a taboo of some sort?
I would love to live happily ever after with a sexy girl who is HAPPY with her nice external clit and WANTS to remain functional. What should I say about myself and how should I approach this important and delicate topic when chatting or talking to a Tgirl that I`m interested in meeting?
MAKE A MOVE ON THIS TGIRL?
I'm intelligent, kind and a lot of fun once people get to know me, but girls only like me as a friend. I must have a soulmate in this world. I once had a dream, God told me my soulmate was a Tgirl, and I've been looking for one ever since, but every now and then I wonder if I should have ignored the dream. I just want to find true love. Do you think dreams tell the future or can they mislead us?
I made friends with a Tgirl on MySpace and we have been talking online, but I don't want to get my heart broken again. I feel like playing safe and having no expectations at all. Hope and expectations are not the same, and for some reason I still have hope. I know a lot of do's and don'ts. I've been around a long time, too. I've studied websites meant for TS's to help them with transitioning. I've read essays by Riki Wilchens and Jamison Green and other transgender thinkers.
understand too much because one Tgirl said talking me was like talking
to one of her home girls, and that's not good. Does any one have any advice
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