TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

November, 2007

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

WHAT A TGIRL WANTS ARTICLE
Subject: love your "What a TS Woman Wants"
Date: 11/20/2007 5:57:02 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I have been trying to explain the exact same thing for years and you have done so, so beautifully :) Thank you!!!

Always,

--Heather.

USEFUL ARTICLES
Subject: Articles
Date: 11/13/2007 12:03:40 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello!

I am 22 years old and I currently live in Manchester England. I have been visitng your site on and off for the last year, and I love it! I find all your articles fascinating and a great read...and perfect for when I can't always explain something TS related to a man.

--Drew.

HIS FIRST TGIRL
Subject: Was I wrong?
Date: 11/8/2007 5:58:59 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I'm a 20-year-old guy. I've been in a couple relationships with GGs, but for some reason I found myself attracted to a girl who works at a clothing company. A couple years ago, I went to the place and I finally got her number. We talked for a week or so, and I finally took her to dinner. We had a great time together, and we seemed to be hitting it off by the end of the date.

I drove her home, walked her to her door, then she gave me a little kiss goodnight. She asked me if I really liked her. I said, yeah, why? Then she told me she was born a boy. I really didn't know how to handle that, I'd just been kissed by a boy. I first thought I might hit her, but that's not me. I just walked away.

I thought about this the whole night, but I wasn't really all that angry because I really did like her. I called her back the next day and said I was sorry. She told me that she understood why I walked off like I did. After our third date, we finally decided to have sex. It was weird at first, but I began to like it that my girl had something extra down there, but that weirded me out even more, so I broke up with her again. It was just too weird.

I don't think I'm gay. I have never had an attraction for another man. It just doesn't do anything for me, so I question whether it's a good idea to date a Tgirl because she has a dick. Was I wrong in the way I handled the relationship?

--Antonio.

THE TGIRL MINEFIELD
Subject: I feel like I`m walking through a minefield, please help!
Date: 11/2/2007 3:22:29 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi Michael and girlfriend,

Thank you for providing this truly helpful and enlightening site.

I`m 61, could pass for 55 on a good day, widowed and wanting to find "the right one." I'm sincere, but new to Tgirl dating and really confused about how to say what I am looking for, or even how to describe myself. I`m a straight male and sexually attracted to femininity, but my buddies have always been more interesting, more fun and far easier to be around than the GG's in my life. My friendships have outlasted all of my romantic efforts. I'm hoping that a Tgirl would be the best of both worlds.

Am I suffering from unrealistic expectations? Would you give me a clue if I am clearly without one? Things get really confusing to me when sexuality enters in. I have always enjoyed mutual oral sex with my GG friends, and especially with my late wife. I really enjoy reciprocating and my GG lovers have enjoyed it as well. Is reciprocation a taboo of some sort?

I would love to live happily ever after with a sexy girl who is HAPPY with her nice external clit and WANTS to remain functional. What should I say about myself and how should I approach this important and delicate topic when chatting or talking to a Tgirl that I`m interested in meeting?

Sincerely,

--G.

SHOULD HE MAKE A MOVE ON THIS TGIRL?
Subject: I'm not good with women.
Date: 11/1/2007 7:01:55 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello my name is Shawn,

I had my heart broken when I was 11 years old, and for one reason or another, I have been unable to form romantic relationships. The longer it goes on, the more awkward it feels knowing that no matter how nice or respectful I am, girls would rather date some pig instead of me. I've watched it happen since I was a kid.

I'm intelligent, kind and a lot of fun once people get to know me, but girls only like me as a friend. I must have a soulmate in this world. I once had a dream, God told me my soulmate was a Tgirl, and I've been looking for one ever since, but every now and then I wonder if I should have ignored the dream. I just want to find true love. Do you think dreams tell the future or can they mislead us?

I made friends with a Tgirl on MySpace and we have been talking online, but I don't want to get my heart broken again. I feel like playing safe and having no expectations at all. Hope and expectations are not the same, and for some reason I still have hope. I know a lot of do's and don'ts. I've been around a long time, too. I've studied websites meant for TS's to help them with transitioning. I've read essays by Riki Wilchens and Jamison Green and other transgender thinkers.

I may understand too much because one Tgirl said talking me was like talking to one of her home girls, and that's not good. Does any one have any advice for me?

--Shawn.

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