TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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TGIRL WHO TOPS
Hi, I have recently stumbled across your website and read every article and plunged myself into all the information that I could get into.
I am a non-op transgendered woman who is versatile and very open minded and comfortable in the skin that I am in. While a fair majority of transwoman feel rather uncomfortable with what they have while being pre-op transgendered, I actually have no harsh feelings or negative stigmas with what I have in between my legs.
There were a few comments that if a transwoman is aggressive, a top, or if she takes a guy from behind, then she's not really a transwoman and she is merely a CD, and if a guy wants a girl to top him then he should go just hire a hooker. (In the article: "Having Sex with a Transsexual Woman: How to Make Love with the Transsexual Female" -- In the section titled "Topping the Man."
Now not for nothing but in life most people see things as black or white -- one way or the other -- but I tend to see that there are many shades of gray in the middle.
I love what I have and have no intentions on getting hormones and surgeries to prove my femininity and who I am. I already know I am a woman and I think, act, breathe, talk, walk, carry myself like one. If I know in my heart of hearts that I am a woman, then society cannot define me and put me into a box. I am a woman and that is for no one else but me to distinguish.
I'm not angry or upset or anything of that nature, it just makes me feel uncomfortable that non-op or transgendered girls who actually are versatile or top or who just don't fit stereotypical "female" roles is getting a bad rap from this article.
It would be gratefully appreciated if you could go back into this article and soften or possibly show more sensitivity or light to girls who are non-op and that it is okay to be so.
Thanks a million for reading this long email.
ABOUT SEX WITH TGIRLS
I've read some questions and
answers here and decided I wanted to asked one, if it isn't a bother.
Now I am at a crossroads between trying a date a genetic girl and getting in a normal boring relationship where I don't ever have that feeling of attraction strongly and the sex isn't so great. Or I could attempt to find a transgendered girl that I could have good sex with and enjoy. I don't know if its wrong to want something purely based on attraction and the feeling I get from reading through these is that I would just be a considered someone with a fetish, not someone who takes it seriously.
Would it be frowned upon by
most transgendered girls that the reason I initially wanted to be with
them is because of sex? Don't get me wrong, later on it would develop
into something more but the underlying feeling would always be about sex.
Any information would be helpful for me making a decision as to what road
I should travel.
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