TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

October, 2007

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

TGIRL WORRIES ABOUT TELLING HIM THE TRUTH
Subject: I need advice
Date: 10/16/2007 2:32:09 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello there,

I'm a pre-op transsexual, 24, and live in Vancouver, BC, Canada. I started hormones six months ago but have been living as a woman for four years. I'm pretty feminine and I work as a girl in a coffee shop. No one has any idea that I'm a TS. Unfortunately, with guys I date, once they know my situation, they call me "dude" and leave me.

Last week, I was in a straight club and met this man. He just kissed me and asked for my number. He didn't seem like a jerk, and didn't even ask me to go home with him. He lives across the border in Washington and visits Canada every weekend. He calls me often and sends me text messages, and talks to me online. He's a really nice guy, but I don't know where this friendship is going. My heart has been broken a million times and I don't want it to happen again. Sometimes I think I should cut off his phone calls or ignore him, but I do like him because he's so sweet and nice.

I'm really worried about what will happen if I tell him. I'm afraid he will get pissed off and violent. I'm totally confused. I don't know what to do, and then I found your website.

I think most guys who are into TS are just bisexual, and most of 'em just see us as a fantasy or fetish, but I want a real man. It's hard to explain to men who we really are. I don't know what to do because this weekend he's gonna see me again, and I don't want to play with his feelings, and I don't want my own heart broken.

I'd really appreciate it if you'd tell me what to do.

We just recently posted a comprehensive answer to this common problem, please go read this article about when, why and how to tell him that you're a transsexual.

Good luck to you.

EXPERT TGIRL ADVICE
Subject: Great article!
Date: 10/10/2007 9:22:53 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I really enjoyed the answers to the 10 questions it and it has some true expert advice.

--D.F.

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