TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

September, 2003

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

THE POST-OP EXPERIENCE IS DIFFERENT HERE
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 9/29/2003 6:51:57 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello!

I have read your article "The Post-Op Transsexual..." and I may say you were very right on some points. I have been in your country several years now, and I do find, we the ladies (post-op), are a little different here than Europe.

I was been hurt several times with men I had met online, because as I said previously, I was new in this field and in your country, I could not see the fakers. After I read your article, you are so very right! Thank you and may the good Lord be with you and your beloved ones.

--Dina.

JUST LIKE A GG
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 9/26/2003 7:15:09 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I've read numerous letters posted from men here at TSGirlfriend and have found one common thread. A lot of men say they would treat a TS girl just like a GG. And from my experience...they do. GG's apparently get treated almost as badly as we do. They get the vulgar instant messages and the piggish emails. Unfortunately, most guys, not all, don't even know how to treat a GG, so how would they remotely know how to treat a TS girl?

A TS girl doesn't want a man who ADORES TS girls. She wants a man who adores HER. For all you men out there who really are MEN, and carry yourself as such, I applaud you! Not all men are vulgar immature adolescence trapped in an adult body, some are actually strong, honorable, chivalrous, and sexy gentlemen.

--VenomousAngel.

NOT LOOKING IN THE USUAL PLACES
Subject: nice girls
Date: 9/25/2003 10:01:02 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I am a normal divorced guy with a cool girl side. I would definitely find it appealing to meet and maybe date a beautiful and feminine TS girl who is well into transition. The inherent problems are where and how and who. It seems so many of the prettiest and sexiest are all escorts, and since I wouldn't be looking to date a GG who's an escort, and consider a TS every bit a lady, finding the normal and classy girl would not be so easy.

Regrettably, given our fear of a new gender, meeting in the "normal spots" or channels is really not likely. Many of the venues where I suppose I'd be most likely to meet such a girl I wouldn't go into. Just not my style. The Internet and personals? Once again this is not a direction I would take looking to meet a nice GG. I'm sure I'll eventually find a way and hope it's sooner rather than later. I'm sure as well there are lots of classy, beautiful, and normal TS girls out there and many cool guys and GGs out there who would love to meet them.

Hopefully the social and gender lines and mores will become more blurred very soon.

--Lee.

THE COST OF NEW PLUMBING
Subject: your article
Date: 9/24/2003 10:49:43 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I am a post-op, and so have gone through what you're talking about. It is right on the nose. My "plumbing" upset me enough to make me spend $26,000 to correct it.

--Nancy.

ATTRACTED BUT UNSURE OF WHAT IT MEANS
Subject: eye opening website
Date: 9/24/2003 1:53:12 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I'm a 22-year-old recent college grad that has only been interested in T-girls for a few months. Since my realization, I've scoured the Internet looking for more information on what it means to be a transsexual and what it means to be attracted to one. I greatly appreciate the frankness of your website, especially "The Great Boyfriend" section. But I'm still having a lot of trouble defining what this means for me. I know I go beyond a typical admirer's passing curiosity.

I'm very interested in what leads a man to become a woman and the process involved. Furthermore, I know I want to treat a T-girl like I would any other girl. Shemale porn, I've found, does little for me, as it seems to be just gay sex with tits. On the other hand, I still haven't been able to meet any T-girls in public. Part of this is due to my somewhat rural location, but I know I'm a bit skittish about the idea of meeting in public. My family is somewhat sexually conservative and I'm not sure what they'd think if they found out.

I've had some great conversations with T-girls online, but that's it. Anyway, if you've read this far, you've been able to put up with my ramblings. I appreciate that. Any insight you have would be greatly appreciated.

--Mark.

IS THIS THE PLACE TO START?
Subject: Submission letter
Date: 9/15/2003 6:40:42 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hello,

I have always wondered if there were a decent site out there that would allow those of use considering the pursuits of a T-girl in this day and age. Yours I found by chance while surfing around. It’s a relief to find a place that's not just another date place with hidden junk and pop-ups.

Most seem to be more a place for escorts, guys in drag and wannabes. I have always found T-girls fascinating, and yes admittedly sensual as well. My interests
have been around for some years now. But I have always wondered if I could
ever pursue that interest more dynamically. I have both known of and known such girls over the years in my life but never gave them so much as a thought. Nether in dislike or in interest. They were just people choosing paths they wanted. Some I met through work situations and places of gathering. (No, not bars. I don’t care for them).

I then did a study on the difference between TS/TV/CD's in the last few years and it was very interesting to find out the differences and lifestyles that were disclosed. The places I found this info were OK, but it seems you have developed a great place of information and views far more dynamic.

Now here I find myself wondering about all those questions and answers. Where do I stand on such interests? Is it curiosity or legitimate interest? All those great sections of information have helped, but I guess one cannot know until one can meet such a girl and decide what those feelings are. But, I wish to nether offend or put anyone on the spot as well.

I am 47 years old, but look more 30. No kids, a few pets and have my own home. You know the guy next door type. Where would I go that you could advise that would allow me to know what my inner self really wants in regards to ether online personals or other avenues? Just point me in the right direction and we will take it from there. I wonder what personals out there I could trust to inquire about stating up a friendship with a T-girl? Or, is this the place to start?

Again, great site and well done.

--Lee.

LIKE EVERY OTHER FEMALE
Subject: No Subject
Date: 9/14/2003 4:01:21 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi, my name Britnay. I was reading your article, I like it very much. I'm a female and I love (pre-op) T-girls, they're just like ever other female but without a pussy. I enjoy being around them. Also, everyone of my friends wants that (Article, "Your T-Girls Should be a Happy Girl") in a man, and you tell it like it is.

IN THE HUNT
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 9/12/2003 9:21:24 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Thank you for this wonderful and informative site, what I read made sense to me, although still searching for LTR. I am a male in England.

WRONG PLACES & WRONG PEOPLE
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 9/11/2003 7:45:46 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

This is an awsome website, I wish I would have found it sooner. I've been looking for a relationship in the wrong places and with the wrong people. I've been a fool. Thank you for opening my eyes.

--Paul.

ENJOYS THE ARTICLES & ADVICE
Subj: Thanks for the Service and Great Website
Date: 9/2/2003 6:13:32 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Dear editor,

I am a male admirer of TGirls. I discovered your site accidentally and now I enjoy the site very much. I enjoy reading the advice and the articles that have been submitted by guest writers as well as the ones written by the editor. In reading these articles, I find them to be very interesting and educational. I must admit that I do not agree 100% with some of them but I do respect and appreciate everyone's opinion. I have even responded to a few of the girls' ads. So far with no success but I will keep on trying.

My main purpose for writing, other that to thank you for your service, is to ask is there anyway that your readers (me specifically) can contact some of the beautiful ladies that you feature on your site. I find them to be very beautiful and would love to strike up a conversation or write to them. Can that be arranged? I am a single business professional and my intentions are honorable and sincere. I am just trying to meet someone who I find attractive and who may be available. Thank you for your time.

--E.B.

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