Dating: Less Than a Woman?
Many relationships have begun in our free transsexual chat. This is the best, most popular free transsexual dating and relationship chat in the world. Check it out today!
Join our mailing list! We will not spam you, no worries.
"I guess I need to apologize to her," the guy said.
"He left saying he would call and apologize," my girlfriend reported.
The two girls talked. Both have had experiences where men have said the same kind of thing, saying they will be right back, and disappeared for a long time. "You run into them an hour and a half later in a different part of the club, and they walk up to you as though they had left five minutes ago, not an hour and a half ago, and they don't see that as a problem. They don't understand what that does to us as a person.
"Quite frankly, going through repeated experiences like that has a very negative impact, it's very deflating to you as a woman. Because we suspect that they don't do that to genetic women.
"It's not just me and the girls I know, it happens to thousands in the transgendered
community. One girl has had guys call her after 18 months with no contact and act for all the world as though he hadn't been absent.
"We think this happens for a couple of reasons," my girlfriend said. "They think we're not real women. On some level they think we're guys and that we will understand. They expect us to understand as if we were guys, like one of their guy friends would. They wouldn't think of this as an issue, they wouldn't think of this as degrading.
"But we are not guys. We don't think like guys, we don't want to be treated like guys. Don't treat us like one of your buddies. A transsexual is not a guy, we are not going to understand like one of his guy friends would. So don't expect us to.
"Expect us to react like a genetic woman would," she said firmly.
"They see us as something less than a real woman, and because of that they react to us differently than they would a genetic woman. In their mind, we're in some kind of in-between world, not quite a woman." And when a TS is perceived as "not quite" a woman, the men treat her as "not quite" a woman.
thing to do," she said, "is stop thinking about us as anything
less than a female. Make the leap and think of us as women. If you can
make that leap, then you will have solved one of the biggest problems
a transsexual faces."
I reserve all publication rights on this article, but feel free to forward it to anyone you like. Copyright 2003, all publication rights reserved.
Homepage for Transgender & Transexual Dating
Ask a Girl for a Date: Your First Email to a TS Girl
Bad Date Story: What a Putz! What NOT to do on a Date
Bisexual Guys & the Transsexual Female
Can't Find a Girlfriend? Get a New Girlfriend! Consider a Transsexual Woman
Dating a Transwoman: My Adventures & Some Advice
Great Boyfriend: Admirers & TS Girls, a TS Chatroom Survey
Having Sex With a Transsexual Woman: How to Make Love With the Transsexual Female
Helpful Hints to Meeting a Trans Girl
How to Date the Pre-Op Transsexual Woman
Jerry Springer Show: Their Invitation to Appear in a Transsexual Episode
Male Bashing: Man Bashing Behavior is Unacceptable in Chat
MTF Transsexual: Growth as a Woman
Post-Op Transsexual: A Post-Op TS Need Not be Dateless
Pre-Op TS in the Boyfriend Hunt
Romance Online: An Emotional Survival Guide
Stood Up on a Date: It's Not a Good Feeling - NEW!
T-Girls as Women: Your T-Girl Should be a Happy Girl
TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us Transgender Dating: Less Than a Woman?
Transsexual Chat, 24/7 TS Chat Room, No Escorts in This Transsexual Chatroom!
Transsexual Girls & the TS Website: A History of TSGirlfriend.com
Transsexuals & Our Chatroom: Meeting Transsexuals Without Looking Stupid
Transsexual & Transgender Glossary
TS Dating Advisor - Free TS Date Advice & Dating Advice
TS Women & the First Date
What a TS Woman Wants
When, Why & How to Tell Him That You're a Transsexual
Why Men Run from Relationships With Transsexual Ladies & What to Do About It
The topic of this page is Transgender Dating, Less Than a Woman?